Passing component data to a new function?

Newb here, but I cannot find an answer. I have a form with a tab control with four tabs and a datagridview of four different tables on each tab. I would like to streamline the code for deleting a line in the grids. Here is the code I have for one of the grids, it is the same on all four grids for each of the tables:
        private void dataGridViewVendors_CellClick(object sender, DataGridViewCellEventArgs e)
        {
            bool NewRowSelected = true;
            int GrdRow = this.dataGridViewVendors.RowCount - 1;
            if (GrdRow == e.RowIndex)
            {
                NewRowSelected = false;
            }
            if (e.ColumnIndex == 0 && NewRowSelected)
            {
                DialogResult response = MessageBox.Show("Do you want to delete this record?", "Click Delete Record?",
                                                         MessageBoxButtons.YesNo,
                                                         MessageBoxIcon.Question,
                                                         MessageBoxDefaultButton.Button2);
                if (response == DialogResult.Yes)
                {
                    String strNum2Delete = this.dataGridViewVendors[1, e.RowIndex].Value.ToString();
                    this.dataGridViewVendors.Rows.RemoveAt(e.RowIndex);
                    this.vendorsTableAdapter.DeleteQuery(strNum2Delete);
                    this.vendorsTableAdapter.Fill(this.pSWFixedAssetsDataSet.Vendors);
                    this.Refresh();
                }
            }
        }

What I would like to have is something like this:
  private void dataGridViewVendors_CellClick(object sender, DataGridViewCellEventArgs e)
  {
      GridDelete(dataGridViewVendors, vendorsTableAdapter, Vendors, e.RowIndex, e.ColumnIndex);
  }
  private void GridDelete(string GRIDNAME, string TABLEADAPT, string TABLE, int ROWIDX, int COLIDX)
  {
       bool NewRowSelected = true;
            int GrdRow = this.GRIDNAME.RowCount -1;
            if (GrdRow == ROWIDX)
            {
                NewRowSelected = false;
            }
           
            if (COLIDX == 0 && NewRowSelected)
            {
                DialogResult response = MessageBox.Show("Do you want to delete this record?", "Click Delete Record?",
                                                         MessageBoxButtons.YesNo,
                                                         MessageBoxIcon.Question,
                                                         MessageBoxDefaultButton.Button2);
                if (response == DialogResult.Yes)
                {
                    String strName2Delete = this.GRIDNAME[1, ROWIDX].Value.ToString();
                    this.GRIDNAME.Rows.RemoveAt(ROWIDX);
                    this.TABLEADAPT.DeleteQuery(strName2Delete);
                    this.TABLEADAPT.Fill(this.pSWFixedAssetsDataSet.TABLE);
                    this.Refresh();
                }
            }
  }
Thanks for any input.
Del